Love u papa..

 Just finished the phone call with my family ..:) :) yeah as usual Chil-Po of family.. news of relatives,neighbours,friends..who is doing what and where..easily available news even after sitting more than 5K miles from family..My great family...:) :)
Well Mamma was telling me how much papa miss me..I miss u too papa :( :(
Its strange world you take hard decisions yourself from your mind still your heart refuse to bend.
Well i know my papa is the best father in this world that anybody can find ever.In first look he is someone you assume the man with tough look and looking for discipline all around him..can easily control everybody and anybody.

But ask me i will tell u how he is..:P :P

Since childhood we are very close..he brought me up in a manner as boys grow and develop their mind.Of course i always confronted the fact on his saying that i m his son..I always told him.."i m like this coz i am ur daughter"

He is the one who can speak continuously one hour about different political and social issues all around the world.(EAST OR WEST MY FATHER IS THE BEST).I remember his open forum to discuss about "Recession in India".."Govt policy".."USA strategy"..USSR disintegration..Anna Hazare..Civil wars in Africa..long list to do..And best part is he dont want u to come his side he always tells us " no no..be on opposite side otherwise no fun in discussion"

He created in our family.."a true democracy" after a certain period when he felt its time to do ..we  dont feel that in any small or big decision our suggestion is not important.

Well there is one disadvantage also coz my younger sister has become dictator and taken over the TV remote and we all request her for our favorite programme.:) :)

Our family also saw ups and downs of life..being from everything to nothing..and then being nothing to something..But being a religious person optimism naturally comes to him and same he taught us..

Once somebody was just telling me "When u think u r growing and taking decision in your family u can take decision easily in ur professional life also" Very true.Thanks to my papa .

My mamma says i m like my father.I feel happy..LIKE FATHER LIKE DAUGHTER :) :)

Well my father has one complain with me...Whenever he is at home he cant find his footwear becoz generally i prefer them to wear.he he he.Well like my father i also have big feet.

Whenever he is at home and will crack jokes to make the environment light..

But when he is angry with something its hard to control really..nobody has dare to say anything..I always had little discomfort with this fact but now i realize its not easy to be a husband.. a father..and specially father of four daughters giving them such a high quality upbringing being in middle class.

I cant forget his kindness when he started looking a good match for my elder sister he asked her permission before moving forward.
Like every daughter i also has a wish to find someone in my life like my father. Optimistic, Caring, progressive thinking and true human being.

He did sacrifices for us we know..Being a shopholic i never count money to my interests but i know my father he always stay away to buy anything for him.And if u gift him something he will tell at least 7-8 ppl "Given by my daughters" ( i am feeling nostalgic)

Ego never touches him.When i was working in New Delhi and he used to visit on Sunday and at 6:00 am will come to me and say "Betaaa tea for u" he he he " i have chopped the vegetables ..now will be easy for u"
He is cool father..will appreciate when her daughters look good and will suggest u "Beta what is that JO AAJ KAL KE BACCHE KNEES TAK JEANS PAHANTE HAI..IT LOOKS SMART". he he he he understand he wants to say "Capri"

When in any close one's marriage we dance he will come to join us and obviously my sisters rock the DG.Me also like junior artist..

Even being the best in the world he is very cute also when he try to use new generation mobile,laptops..very complicated for him to search a name in address book and use the internet..He is my sweetheart !!

Whenever he sits with mamma recalls all our childhood memories,our habits,our likings everything.Many a times i listen his worries about our future.i know he is tensed for uncertainty and there are still some battles to win...But i just wann say " I Love u..We love u..We will do"

Caution wet Floor !!

Hmmm well like every normal morning ..i just woke up..prepared myself for office..did a namesake breakfast..and in hurry called driver at least 3 times when the clock showed me 8:30 am..Where he stuck up???..will be late today for sure then seniors will say "not right attitude" (well privilege of seniors ;) would like to keep silence when u sit late in office in evening to finish your work). finally our driver made a horn 2 times and hastily i got into car and in approx 30 minutes entered the office premises.I was rushing to lift but i noticed that cleaning lady had put the mark "Caution Wet floor".. Then i thought its better now i move with caution..:) :)

Just pressed the lift button as 8th floor..in this 40 seconds i was just thinking.if i had not noticed i would have slipped.we people rush around whole day without proper caution.Who would have cared for me if i hurt myself.

Lift reached at 4th floor and somebody joined us in the lift and again it stopped at 6th floor some ppl left us and some other joined us.All professionals working in good companies like a bunch of grapes sticking together to reach their destinations.

I was just looking myself in the mirror of life.My mind was somewhere thinking about same sign that lady put in the ground floor.

Surely your career.. your life nothing is certain it changes over time and u also as a person change.
Still looking at mirror mind asked the heart,"are u the same person like 3 years back???

Then heart started meditating when we start our life/our career we all are very innocent..nothing seems to be impossible with energy and enthusiasm.Child like curiosity..Problems come and we say its just to teach me..I will achieve..becoz we want to be something ..a creative mind, a person who is most talked about and is appreciated by folk.I dont know why we all enter into organization with magic wand to change everything. we have suggestion/our opinion for everything.. almost for everything..

Then time runs and we found ourselves in different environment.we breath in the air hardly known to us.We start forgetting what used to think..Now we want to think for what we are paid and not more than this.

Now starts the replacement..enthusiasm with frustration..Child like curiosity with a blocked mind  obeying others idea..magic wand with excuses...suggestion/opinion with complains and requests..

We all change ...and at the end when we meet ourselves we are embarrassed and again gives excuses that we were busy that's why we missed anniversary of our parents..we missed to chat with our old friend..we missed to give time to our favorite pastime .We loose small happiness.

We work whole day but hardly do what we want to do for ourselves.

Its true that change is inevitable and reality of life and needed also but important is in this slippery floor where we are moving should take caution that we dont forget what we want..